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Originally Posted by basIam  Im no doctor, but coughing blood is a symptom of TB. where do you live? is TB an issue in your region? I would suggest you go to your school health department and get a TB screen immediately (they are free at schools in the US)
If he's doing coke, I suggest you cut ties with him YESTERDAY. I don't know anyone who got their bank account emptied by a nicotene addict, but I know many who have by coke heads.
I know its going to hurt breaking things off with him, but you are doing him no favors. The sooner you cut him off, the sooner he hits bottom and the better chance you have of him living. Just my opinion. |
Is not TB, i know im doing him no favors, but no one will be there for him, i love him, and im so scared that i could be dragged down because of all this,
two weeks feeling extremely happy with him..is like being in the highest top of the mountain feeling acomplished and suddenly someone kick your butt and you end up down when you started!!..climbing up the mountain to be in the dirt like this????
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Originally Posted by change4penny IHFY...Hi, I'm a recovering opiate/cocaine addict, 14 months clean.
In my opinion, he didn't 'just' start doing coke, I highly doubt that he is addicted this quick.
He's probably been doin it for awhile.
And as far as the irregular heartbeat and it being fast...coke speeds up your heartbeat.
You need to cut it off before you get more invested. Don't spend years trying to figure out a coke fiend.
Penny |
I highly doubt that he got addicted this quick!! Is just impossible!!! I think he just decided to tell me in THAT way, and maybe trying to make me feel bad because my usage of nicotine! I'm not addicted to nicotine!! he just doesn't like it and says "you know thats a turn off for me" But I've never smoked in the front of him!!
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Originally Posted by Carol Star It wouldn't hurt for you to find a coda(codependents) meeting or a naranon meeting. |
I should do something, i've been very sad, im having a lot of anxiety and im eating a lot ...I dont know anything about him or where he is, he lives like more than an hour where i live, and i dont want to go to his store, i dont know how he or his employees are going to react