[Dee74]

Hi Iamhereforyou

I'm not familiar with coke, so I'll let others deal with that.

I do think you have a problem though - and what I say now will be painful to hear, but it comes from concern for you, and from many years experience.

Whatever the cause, your BF is doing himself serious damage - and paying you little regard or respect.

There also seems to be a lot of power playing here - I'll stop smoking and drinking if you be with me, you smoke cigs so I can do coke - it all sounds very very unhealthy to me....and it's not likely to get better in any respect.

The bottom line is you can't make anyone stop, cut back, or do anything if they don't want to.

Many of us have tried, and had others try on us.

Visit our Family and Friends forums for the perspectives of people who've been there.

You've been together officially 2 weeks?
Pls give this matter some serious thought before you dig yourself in deeper.

D