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I cringe when I read things like "Men Suck" or "I've had so many exes. I'd love to smash their faces in". Can you imagine the reaction if someone on these forums wrote that about women? I understand the anger involved, but there's no excuse for male-bashing.
Read the threads on SR. There are plenty of irresponsible women and men who have children and partners that they treat badly. Each instance different from the next...
That said, why would you be dragging your 13 year old through the courts if you contest your current visitation with your son? It would only involve you and his father and would probably result in a more crystal clear schedule that you both would have to keep to or forfeit visitation rights. It would also give you a chance to channel your anger towards your ex where it belongs: in court, where it can produce a result.
I am divorced and have 4 kids. I have learned that regardless of what is going on with my ex and myself, it does me no good whatsoever to put myself in such a foul mood as to take away from my time with the kids. It's just not worth it.
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