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I don't have much advice to offer, but more of a heartfelt Thank You. I met my SO on FB, as well; we never dated in our youth, were just friends, and continued an online friendship/telephone for a while before reacquainting in person and falling in love.
I was there when he decided to get sober. I was there for the relapse. Recently, I let him go...not a formal "break-up", but just decided since I don't have the power to keep him sober, it was time to let him sort things out, alone.
I hurt, but know that we can't have a relationship while he's in this state of mind.
It's reading posts from survivors like you that give me hope, for myself, and for him.
It's been a week since I've had any contact with him, and of course the "what if's" are in my head, but that's no way to live.
I think you and your friend have a shot, in time. No rush...concentrate on you first,and let her do the same. Congratulations, and my prayers and blessings are with you both.
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