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Thank you, but it only because I am also a fighter.... unfortunally it has taken me so many years to finally get that Im fighting for the wrong person.... I need to fight for my relationship with me.... You do him no favors by making it easier for him....
I compare it to a butterfly that is trying to break out of its cocoon. If you even help a little bit by tearing the cocoon the butterfly will get out only to have weak wings and die.... it you help an alcoholic try to recover and make it even a little easier for him ... he will have a weak recovery and possibly not make recovery at all. It has to be something they want with all there soul... for themselves first otherwise it just does not work.
Remember Loving someone does not always mean taking care of them or fighting their battles. Sometimes the only way to show someone how much you love them is by letting them go so they can hit there bottom and find out how to love themselves.
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Cynay
"Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one's definition of your life; define yourself."
Harvey Fierstein
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