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Old 11-08-2009, 01:06 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Dozing and depression can happen on suboxone therapy. They are normal early-recovery symptoms for many addicts. It doesn't rule out the possibility that he may be relapsing, though. The sad fact is that most of us addicts relapse several times before recovery "takes" and many of us never do get and stay clean. I couldn't live with an active addict. Never again.

Remember that you didn't cause his addiction, you can't control it, and you can't cure it. If you quit playing detective about his recovery detach in a healthy way, and bring the focus back to you and your life and your recovery from codependency, your life can improve despite what he is doing or failing to do. And for now, make sure you keep your own money. Feel free to PM me with any further questions. I wish you all the best. Life with an addict is painful. Are you going to Alanon or posting in the friends and family forum to get some support for you?

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KJ
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