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Hate to say it, but those in the immediate proximity of alkies are just as troubled as an active addict in alto of cases. You guys should have some kind of program too. Try alanon, it's frightenly similar to aa (in a good way). The alkies issues are not your issues and you should try to find a way to not let their behavior while they are active impact you. If you have; you've got baggage that could use some reprocessing. It's not your fault, but it is your problem. There are many ways
to get to a better place. Alot of great advice on the boards here. Humbly on day 102.
"The alcoholic actually ends up in a better place then teh people they destroy..."
Doesn't have to be the case. You could be setting up a self fufilling prophecy by thinking that too much. Focus on you! What makes you happy and content that you can realistically achieve. Make it your journey and have fun!
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