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Originally Posted by lesa  happy birthday to me ,i spent alone..he went out..came home and started to blame me..told him not to blame me .he did it not me...why can they once own up to want they do  |
One of my birthdays was missed, he called and asked if i minded if he went out for a while w/friends.......
I very nicely said,"no, that's fine, have a drink for me".
He said......."what? What do you mean?"
I said, "I mean, have a nice night... "
He came home at 2 a.m.... with all of the lights out in the house, except for the beautiful chandelier over the dining room table, nicely illumnating my gifts, roses, cake etc. that I had w/ my kids and family.
I heard, "oh s***" as he ran up the stairs, started w/ the I'm sorry's ........... and then went on to BLAME ME for not reminding him.
Ya, right.
I rolled over.
This is life w/ an addict. Get used to it.
BUT.......... happy birthday from a girl who understands your hurt.
Love,
Cess
