she is only doing and saying what she knows her family wants to hear... she can in no way stay friends with any of these people.... shes not trying to stop... and he wont try unless she actually WANTS to stop... the withdrawls are very hard... what i would recomend... if her family is going to force her into getting off the stuff... is to move her to a location that she isnt familiar with...but go with her to support her.. i mean.... if you have a relative who wants to help... and is out of state... preferably totally across the country... and not anywhere a "friend" could show up to "spend time with her and be supportive" all that is... is a drug run... she needs to be in an unfamilar place so that she has NO connections.. and doesnt know anyone who out help her find more drugs... you would need to be there for i would say no less than a month.. but be prepared to stay longer.... and if she doesnt want to quit... she will just start again when shes around all her so called friends... she probably needs some kind of motivation to stop... l like.. i dont know... a new car or a vacation she would want... if the family has money. .they can offer these things.. .when most ppl just have to grit their teeth and bear it.... also.. if they have money.. .why dont they take her to a high end rehab... and have her put into a drug induced comma where they detox her while she sleeps.. .and when she wakes up.. she is perfectly clean... that only likes errrmm... 2 days maybe? i dont remember... and then she would need therapy to be and stay motivated to stay clean... also... AA and NA arent very effective.. .all they do is talk about drugs.. whick.. to an adict just makes them want to NO drugs.. lots of people use NA and AA for hookups on finding MORE drugs.... i would suggest taking her to a therapist that doesnt try to make her come clean by shoving god down her throat like AA and NA do... and give all kinds of tasks like apologizing to each and every person you have wronged in your past.. these things are not needed... and not at all needed to become clean....
well there you go.... that is my advice... move with her where she would know NO ONE... and have no possible way of getting hookups.. and go with her every time she leaves the house.. .this way she cant meet new hookups..... and it sounds like shes the type that would need a reward at the end of it all... not just being healthy.... it woudlnt be enough reward for her....
good luck!