[alwayswaiting]

Hi,

Just a couple of days I found out that my boyfriend has been stealing from me. A lot of money and things. He had been using narcotics since ive known him, but in the last 6 months had slowly fallen deeper and deeper. In the end he was shooting up heroin numerous times a day. At this time, he started stealing from me. I am only a junior in college and after all of this my mother decided to come live with me. To support me to get thru this. He checked into rehab today.

Of course, everyone around me is absolutely mortified and doing everything they can to make sure I never ever get back with him. My mother flew back to the US from europe (they all live there). She is staying here with me until this semester is over (December). I am a mess to say the least, so I do need her right now... but their plan for me is to have me move back to europe and to close this chapter of my life. But- i so just want to wait for him to get better. On the other hand, I don't know if I can stay here... got no support here anymore without him...

He wants my support. he wants to get better so bad and get me back. He is so sorry. he is mortified about what he did. he says he has never wanted to clean so bad...

My questions are... how can I support him without loosing my sanity? My family will never accept him again... what can i say to him? he needs me but i need to heal... i want to help him more than anything but how can i? should I? Should I stay here and wait...?


Any help and/or support will be GREATLY appreciated...

i'm lost and sad.

but I am SO HAPPY that he is rehab