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Old 11-06-2009, 04:52 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by MsMandee View Post

Is it possible that she wants to change, at least to some degree, despite the fact that she is still drinking and lying?
This might not make any sense to you because this disease does not make sense (period).

People who have alcohol-ISM suffer from delusional thinking that creates blind-spots so big that outsiders can't even begin to imagine them.

Even if she wants to change more than anything else in the world - her disease is blocking her from the truth that she desperately needs to change.

As long as she is drinking she has no clue just how much she is lying. As long as she is lying she has no clue just how addicted she is.

Something needs to break the cycle - jail, hospitalization or rehab. Pray for rehab.
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