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anything that you want in the contract is what is reasonable. At one point, I asked a very wise woman in recovery if something that I wanted was reasonable and she said that anything that I wanted was reasonable because addiction is not reasonable. The contract is to protect you financially, spiritually, and emotionally and it's going to be different for every family.
What rules/regulations/responsibilities do you want addressed in your home? Include anything that has the potential to create resentments.
Hope that it all goes well! Glad that you are getting to some meetings. My recovery had a huge impact on my husband's recovery even though that wasn't my intention.
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"If I stay in the light of what I can do to make my life better, rather than in the darkness of anger, blame and fear of the problem, my path remains lit and my world is a better place."
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