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I'm not sure about the control issue.... others will be along to comment on that.
My thoughts are ... he made plans... after a while of working on the stereo, he
should have been aware he wasn't going to make it over when he said, so a courtesy
call should have been made by him. This is how it works in the "normal" world. I lived
this, too, and know it doesn't work this way in the addict world. Their reasoning is
a little off.... That being said, HIS actions caused fear/panic reaction in you which
most likely, considering his history would usually indicate he was out using.
No expections may be key...
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