It's well over 4 yrs & I think I have a ways to go before I even consider looking for anything near a relationship. But for the possible distance time that I might, (in the far off time)... I will take a look at this article again, to help me get off the track I was on. Maybe it could help anyone else considering it.
Signs you're in a healthy relationship
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the last tip is a good one, I will have to wait on that also. I don't have a dog, so that's in the future also. For now I'm at peace by myself w/ a cat. Serenity, bliss, calm, what else it there