His girlfriend sounds a bit unstable. I don't think you overacted in anyway. I actually think what you did is the best thing to do. You called a friend for help, help that you deserved and needed, and his girlfriend yelled at you for that and for "causing" their problems. You don't need that. Good for you for standing up for yourself.
Hi ice17. I don't know for sure, but to me it sounds like a lot of your reactions, situations, etc., come from being an ACOA. Maybe I'm wrong, but the reason I think this is because I can relate to almost all of it. I too mainly have only acquaintances and oftentimes it does seem like no one can relate (except the people on this site of course
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