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Startingover2 · 11-05-2009, 07:58 AM

Evidently when exah didn't have his license he didn't pay the registration on his truck. Well, now that he has his license back he had to pay the fees plus late fees.

Last night he sent some texts:

Exah: Do you have plans this weekend?
Me: Not sure why?
Exah: Thought we can take baby to the mountains for the day now that I have my truck back.
Me: Oh, we will see...(I won't do that)
Exah: I needed the money to pay my fees so I don't have your first support payment this month (payments are due on the 1st and 15th. He is already late on the 1st). I will have the 15th though.
Me: When can you pay the first payment?
Exah: I don't know if I can. Was thinking I can work it off around your house.
Me: I don't need that done. I really need the money.
Exah: Sorry.. I needed to get the registration paid so I can drive my truck. Just let me work it off. Your sideyard looks like heck.
Me: That is stuff going to the dump when my son gets his truck next week.
Exah: I can take it to the dump and that will pay for my payment.
Me: No, I don't need work done. Just let me know when I can get my payment please.

Seriously! I need the money. Going to the dump? Would take him maybe 1 hour! Thats one expensive dump run!

There is nothing I can do but keep bugging him about it. I can have my attorney write him a letter at $200/hr., CSS wont do anything until he is chronically hasn't paid, or let it go.

Today I guess I will tell him he can spread the payment out and add it to the next 3 payments! He won't do it. That is alot of money I count on. He still blames me for his DUI...and then all of the consequences that go with it.
Does anyone have any suggestions to how I can handle this?

11-05-2009, 07:58 AM	#1 (permalink)
Startingover2 Member Join Date: Oct 2007 Posts: 534	More Manipulation! UGGH! Evidently when exah didn't have his license he didn't pay the registration on his truck. Well, now that he has his license back he had to pay the fees plus late fees. Last night he sent some texts: Exah: Do you have plans this weekend? Me: Not sure why? Exah: Thought we can take baby to the mountains for the day now that I have my truck back. Me: Oh, we will see...(I won't do that) Exah: I needed the money to pay my fees so I don't have your first support payment this month (payments are due on the 1st and 15th. He is already late on the 1st). I will have the 15th though. Me: When can you pay the first payment? Exah: I don't know if I can. Was thinking I can work it off around your house. Me: I don't need that done. I really need the money. Exah: Sorry.. I needed to get the registration paid so I can drive my truck. Just let me work it off. Your sideyard looks like heck. Me: That is stuff going to the dump when my son gets his truck next week. Exah: I can take it to the dump and that will pay for my payment. Me: No, I don't need work done. Just let me know when I can get my payment please. Seriously! I need the money. Going to the dump? Would take him maybe 1 hour! Thats one expensive dump run! There is nothing I can do but keep bugging him about it. I can have my attorney write him a letter at $200/hr., CSS wont do anything until he is chronically hasn't paid, or let it go. Today I guess I will tell him he can spread the payment out and add it to the next 3 payments! He won't do it. That is alot of money I count on. He still blames me for his DUI...and then all of the consequences that go with it. Does anyone have any suggestions to how I can handle this?