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This situation wasn't your fault. He should have told you that he had someone with him. One of the great things that I have learned over the last few years is that someone else's bad behavoir is no reflection on me. He should have told you that he couldn't talk and she should not have wacked out on you. They were both wrong.
We all need someone that we can talk to. When someone had a tough childhood and an alcoholic parent, they need it even more.
I am new to this forum and don't mean to come across as evangalizing for alanon; however, it has been a great program for me. I have found people who have been through what I am going through and who are true friends. These are people who don't mind a phone call at 2:00 a.m.
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