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rayofsunshine · 11-04-2009, 08:46 PM

Sending (((HUGS))) Fluffy. I know its hard to pray for them when your living in the chaos, arguing, etc. Maybe just pray for God to give you answers on what your next steps should be.

Addicts will lie and tell you what you want to hear, to not cause a confrontation. Addicts will lie to cover up their problem and try to convince you everythings fine.
Addicts will lie about most anything to keep feeding there addiction.
It's frustrating, but try not to take it personally, its just what they do as long as they are actively using. Its part of their sickness.

Praying for strength for you and your 8 year old.

Keep posting... its helps so much!

11-04-2009, 08:46 PM	#8 (permalink)
rayofsunshine Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Wishin' I was on the Beach! Posts: 1,416	Sending (((HUGS))) Fluffy. I know its hard to pray for them when your living in the chaos, arguing, etc. Maybe just pray for God to give you answers on what your next steps should be. Addicts will lie and tell you what you want to hear, to not cause a confrontation. Addicts will lie to cover up their problem and try to convince you everythings fine. Addicts will lie about most anything to keep feeding there addiction. It's frustrating, but try not to take it personally, its just what they do as long as they are actively using. Its part of their sickness. Praying for strength for you and your 8 year old. Keep posting... its helps so much! __________________ Laugh when you can, apologize when you should, and let go of what you can't change! Never allow someone to be a priority to you when you are just an option to them.........