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hi stg1979-
welcome! you're in the right place.
i think you are doing the right thing. mine pushed me once when he was drunk. the next day, he was so sorry. said it would never happen again.
it did happen again. and again. and again.
finally, i got hurt. i have a broken shoulder. it's not healing well and i can't lift things with that arm anymore. i can't swim. i can't do a cartwheel. i used to be a gymnast and competed also in swimming.
i do believe that it wouldn't have happened without the alcohol. he promised he would stop and he did for periods. but he never worked a program, so it never stuck.
if yours is like mine, i believe you are in danger of a repeat attack as long as there is drink involved.
please, learn from my mistake and stick to your resolve. if he wants help, it is available for him at AA. without that, i would stick to no contact if i was you.
naive
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