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Originally Posted by amp1976  Obviously their safety is the most important thing and obviously he has been driving with them even when I'm at home. I guess my problem is that it isn't going to be an easy thing to prove that he is drinking and driving with them unless he gets caught. All around this is just a bad situation that I put my kids in. I guess I know the answer to my question...just hoping for someone else who went through this to share how they dealt with it. I feel like moving as far away as possible and starting over...you know, run away from the problem. Not an easy option. Sorry for sounding like a typical "stupid woman", I just wanted to vent. |
No, it's not easy to prove it, but prove it you must. You have a 7-year-old witness. You know what's going on. You have to protect them.
I don't think you are stupid. We do the best we can until we know better, then we do better. I did many things I am not proud of when I was enabling my husband. I cannot change what happened in the past. I can only learn from it and do things differently now.
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