I did know that yes but I just need it re-inforced I guess (Typical ACoA I wonder...? lol).
I'm just not sure if she understands that's all it is? A drink = no visits, no drink = time spent together?? I feel like I just want to clarify that I am not taking him away that I just don't want him around her when she is unstable. I guess I made it clear in my letter and I have told my dad that's the case, so I'll just have to leave them to it!
It doesn't stop it from hurting though