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Okay my AH has been living away from the house for over two weeks. I'm having a problem with my wedding rings. My husband took his off the day he left. Mine are still on. I don't know why. We are married still but not together because he is still actively drinking. In a way I want them off. I don't want to be reminded. Either way I think I'll be reminded of this marriage and his alcoholism. I know this is really insignificant but I would like to hear your replies.

This is a wicked stupid question, but while you were estranged from your A did you take your rings off?

I feel if I take them off then my marraige is over. If I leave them on then I feel like I'm married but he's not with me nor has he been for a long time even though he was at the house.

I know this is a very stupid question but let me know what you did. It would help me think about what I should do about them.

thank you and wish all a good day!!!!!