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honoryourself · 11-01-2009, 07:52 PM

Thanks.. I guess I need to lace up some running shoes and get moving. I am just so tired from all the stress, I'm scared I won't be able to deal with it all, plus hold down my job and my sanity! If I take him off all my credit accounts, and if we end up divorced, does all that CC debt become mine alone? I mean, it may not even matter. He could just leave the country. He's not a citizen, and there's 7 or so months left before his status turns permanent, based on our marriage. I'm sure the easiest route would be to just f off. I'm not sure what I'm worried about, I'm already screwed. I guess it's just that nagging hope that he could make some $ and contribute before he's gone. He seems to want to, he says he loves working, wants to pay down debts, is doing really well at work, etc.. but I guess it's what he does when he gets paid that really matters.

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honoryourself Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: east siiiide Posts: 254	Thanks.. I guess I need to lace up some running shoes and get moving. I am just so tired from all the stress, I'm scared I won't be able to deal with it all, plus hold down my job and my sanity! If I take him off all my credit accounts, and if we end up divorced, does all that CC debt become mine alone? I mean, it may not even matter. He could just leave the country. He's not a citizen, and there's 7 or so months left before his status turns permanent, based on our marriage. I'm sure the easiest route would be to just f off. I'm not sure what I'm worried about, I'm already screwed. I guess it's just that nagging hope that he could make some $ and contribute before he's gone. He seems to want to, he says he loves working, wants to pay down debts, is doing really well at work, etc.. but I guess it's what he does when he gets paid that really matters.