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Old 10-31-2009, 04:30 PM   #4 (permalink)
Chrysalis123
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Originally Posted by veryregretful View Post
i hate going to the store, or driving somewhere and see a husband and wife together i get jealous. I don't have that anymore.
First,

I know what you mean about feeling jealous/hurt when seeing couples. I still do that and it has been 3 years. Older couples.....I see them and still well up.

A loss of a long term marriage is just that a loss. I am still facing a lot of grieving and it springs up at the oddest times.

When I was first going through the separation/betrayal part, my counselor told me I was stressed and depressed and she was right. I went to see my regular doctor too, and even though I don't usually take medications, both agreed a short time on antidepressants could help. And it did for me.

I'm sorry for your pain and sorrow right now.
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