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Old 10-31-2009, 12:13 PM   #2 (permalink)
Still Waters
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If you feel it's best for you and the kids to move, then do it. They'll adjust just fine. That said, I wouldn't make any major decisions while you're this upset. Can you speak to a therapist?

You certainly can't control him, but you can control your magical thinking. That's when you begin to gloss over the abuse and believe that "this time it will be different". As long as your husband is drinking, it won't be any different and will only get worse.
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