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The sad but true part of this, as best I can figure out, is that he need to figure it out on his own. Take care of yourself first. Get support detach. Alot of well intentioned "help" is actually enabeling the addict. To a non addict it would actually be appreciated help. Funny how it works. Try alanon, stickies on friends and family in this site and any one who has been. Through a similar situation. Best of luck alot of great people here as well with more pertinent experience to your situation than i have. Humbly on day 94.
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"We're all told at some point in time that we can no longer play the children's game, we just don't...we don't know when that's gonna be. Some of us are told at eighteen, some of us are told at forty, but we're all told."
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