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hey, welcome!
I was getting worried since so many people on this forum have cut contact with their alcoholic that I was one of the few left still living with one.
Her drinking IS NOT YOUR FAULT
There's something the al-anon-ers call "the three C's":
you didn't cause her drinking
you can't control her drinking
you can't cure her drinking
only she can decide to stop drinking.
one thing I recommend is al-anon meetings.
I started going to al-anon last spring. It's hard at first to get the guts to start, but I find it really great to talk to other people who are going through/have gone through the same stuff as me.
Take care
DM
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