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be honest
don't harm others
don't drink
who and what you do is your own business
who and what you harm isn't
simple
read page 69 and the next few pages in the BB whether you do AA or not, good sound advice about sex there
If the two of you need your ashes hauled and it's clearly understood that's what that is, what the two of you do is your own business, not anyone else's, however, every time you sleep with her after that one time you are taking out an emotional "chit" that you WILL pay for at some point.
a woman with 25 years of sobriety gave me those tidbits nearly 20 years ago when I was new
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