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Mandjas · 10-23-2009, 08:48 AM

Thank you your are absolutely right. I was thinking just last night that maybe I could invite them over on bonfire night for a BBQ. I thought enough time will have passed and we will all be a little calmer about everything. That it would be on my territory and my terms but in reality it won't will it? If she's had a drink then my boundaries are out of the window and she will know once again that I'll put up with it.

Having a card by the phone what a great idea! I also just looked at my first post and that has reminded me of my decisions.

I keep thinking how sad Xmas will be and the opportunities we are missing out on - as I am moving back to Australia next year and very much doubt I will be back in for a long while.

10-23-2009, 08:48 AM	#3 (permalink)
Mandjas Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Birmingham, England Posts: 58	Thank you your are absolutely right. I was thinking just last night that maybe I could invite them over on bonfire night for a BBQ. I thought enough time will have passed and we will all be a little calmer about everything. That it would be on my territory and my terms but in reality it won't will it? If she's had a drink then my boundaries are out of the window and she will know once again that I'll put up with it. Having a card by the phone what a great idea! I also just looked at my first post and that has reminded me of my decisions. I keep thinking how sad Xmas will be and the opportunities we are missing out on - as I am moving back to Australia next year and very much doubt I will be back in for a long while.