i am 22 years l and have a step dad who is in the hospital because his spleen ruptured and comes to find out he needs to quit drinking as he came to the hospital at 4 am and he had a blood alcohol level of .31. so at this point his family and us are all talking about how he need to go through rehab and are nervous that he isn't going to want to get the help that he needs. I'm scared and confused and would like some insight of what to expect and how to handle things. I am a very defensive person and i know that i will want to defend myself in everything that he tries to do and i want to help and not make the situation worse. Please help thank you any advise or information is appreciated.