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I'm going through the same thing, and all I can say is that no contact, no contact, no contact will give you the peace of mind you need. You will suddenly realize one day...oh, I was upset about this? Best thing that ever happened to me! For me, it happened after a few weeks of no contact. I found one of my old journals and read through it and was so shocked at how much I'd put up with. And in the end, HE was the one who left! It's actually hilarious. One thought that really helped me was realizing that my Higher Power had done for me what I couldn't do for myself. I would have gone on being miserable forever. I was loyal to a fault. Now I see that I totally neglected myself all that time, and I get to live the life I want to live now!
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