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iawoings. Welcome
I am rather new here as well but just wanted to say ((((((hugs)))))). You are where I was about a year and a half ago. You seem completely engulfed in your roommates drinking.
I started my healing process by reading Codependent no more by Melody Beatty. When I first started on my journey it was all about how do I get him to stop? What can I do? How can I manipulate the situation around me to help him?
Then I realized that this isn't up to me. All I can do is look out for myself. Take care of myself, love myself and live my life. Not matter what my partner does.
What is it that you want today? Is there a chance you could maybe try to each get your own space again for a while? I am not sure the reason why you are roommates.
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