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Originally Posted by LaTeeDa  You posted another thread a couple weeks ago about "One Day at a Time." This is a perfect example of what it means. Instead of trying to predict the future, (he might hit bottom if he goes to jail, he might not hit bottom if you kick him out, you won't ever go back to him if you split up, etc.) what would you do if RIGHT NOW was the only thing that mattered? What if you had no way of knowing what might happen tomorrow (and none of us does)? What would you do then? If any decision you had to make had to be made entirely based on WHAT IS--RIGHT NOW, what would you do? |
I read this and immediately I thought, "Okay, what is right now, you mean what if right now he stays like this forever?" You mean now meaning now. It is so very hard for me not to look into the future. Right this very minute...I don't know. Why is this so blasted hard for me to comprehend?