| What we don't miss
Okay, I'm having a rough night and just need to get these things off my chest. The whole quacking thread a few weeks ago really helped so I'm hoping this will too. Anyway.
I DON'T miss....
getting hung up on just because he didn't like me standing up for myself, my job, my kids, my friends, my family, my dogs, my cats, my LIFE
I DON'T miss.....
having to listen to him call me a liar and a b!tch and a cheat
I DON'T MISS.........
having to turn my cell phone ringer off at night to avoid a fight with his jealousy every time it rang
I DON'T MISS.....
the stale, yeasty smell of beer on his breath
the "woe is me" stories defending why he drinks, yells, screams, loses his temper
going to bed at 8:00 just because HE said I needed to
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