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I hear ya, but I have to say that I never just "got over it", I had to start working on it, otherwise I'd keep exhibiting the same behavior over and over and over. Counseling, CoDA meetings, self-help books, etc. I'm still a work-in-progress.
When I learned to love myself, then I was available to love others. It went from being a miserable experience to being an amazing journey. With some speed bumps of course.
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