[Astro]

I'm guessing you're talking about when we have a romantic interest in someone else?

In the past I would quickly take on the emotions of jealousy and possessiveness when I was interested in a member of the opposite sex. That made for very difficult relationships and marriages, I was always angry at someone and filled with distrust. I understand that now to mean that I have insecurities and low self-esteem patterns that I need to be aware of and work on.

I found the program of Codependents Anonymous to be extremely helpful when it comes to having healthy relationships with others and healthy behavior patterns.