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In my experience with my AS, I set a boundary with her that she could not come live with me and my husband; it was a natural consequence for her behavior, but also it was an action to save my OWN sanity. I cannot be around her when she drinks, and that's that. I put myself and my marriage first, and I'm ok with that.
Are you OK with feeling how you feel when you are around him and his drinking? That might be the question to examine first.
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"The greatest meditation is a mind that lets go".
"When the Japanese mend broken objects, they aggrandize the damage by filling the cracks with gold. They believe that when something's suffered damage and has a history it becomes more beautiful".
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