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whyamistaying · 10-14-2009, 01:41 PM

while drinking. Someone was telling me that if there was any hope for my marriage, I should kick him out. That I am enabling him because it is comfortable to be here (home). That he needs to lose his wife and kids to hit rock bottom.

Is that really true that I am enabling him by letting him live here?

He is still drinking...12 or 18 beers a day and I just do nothing...well, I avoid and detach and don't stay home...but he is still living here.

10-14-2009, 01:41 PM	#1 (permalink)
whyamistaying Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 245	Is it enabling letting AH live in the same house while drinking. Someone was telling me that if there was any hope for my marriage, I should kick him out. That I am enabling him because it is comfortable to be here (home). That he needs to lose his wife and kids to hit rock bottom. Is that really true that I am enabling him by letting him live here? He is still drinking...12 or 18 beers a day and I just do nothing...well, I avoid and detach and don't stay home...but he is still living here.