| Being too Sensitive
I'm kinda back around here.
I seem to get offended smetimes with the remarks I get. Especially from the guys. Men are on my 4th step, I'm sure I'm not unique in that area. But it's kinda like men in general. (which I have on my fourth step too) When they comment on anything I say I feel totally stupid. Can any of you relate to that. I'm sure its just my ego thinking they are picking on me and my low self esteem. My past with men was not the best. But whenever a guy tells me something like get over it. You aren't working the program, it offends me more than when a women does. Especially on this forum.
I was just wondering if any of you ever felt that. I find myself wanting to go off or just back away. I see a lot of good people on here.
Just wondering if you ever felt stupid or had your feelings hurt on here.
There is good, if not, I wouldn't be coming back.
Its just, I guess what I'm trying to ask is. If any of you had really bad pasts with men, do you let it effect you here on the forum or in lilfe in general. I'm working very hard on this.
This probaby makes no sense again. I don't want to cause a debate, I don't want to have any names of men who upset you on here. I just want to know if you were ever too sensitive or maybe, maybe were treated a little weird and how you built your confidence to ignore it.
I am an alcoholic people pleasing follower. Any one like that?
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