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I struggle with this at work with two women, one is 43 and the other is almost 20. Those two will go out, be friendly, and the young will will work with me and shred the other one to pieces....I dont get it. I try to change the subject, as I dont want to get involved. The young one is very immature and has untreated issues, very dysfunctional, but so manipulative and backstabbing.
I just want everyone to get along. I dont have good boundaries. The older one doesnt have an unkind word to say about her supposed "friend"..ugghh....
I get along with the both of them, but the catty one embellishes and dramatizes everything...it's all drama. I just dont want to hear anymore, and it's so hard for me to say this. Because it never comes out right.
I come from the depths of hell. I have no right to judge anyone. I have so much baggage that lindsey lohan's struggles look like a freaking disney movie..LOL
Anyway, I guess I wish I had stronger boundaries and just didnt give a rats butt about what people thought.
Gossip hurts. Am I guilty of gossip, of course...it's within the last 6 months, Ive taken a good look at my actions. But sometimes, I feel I stand alone in my thinking. Live and let live.
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