[Sugah]

Is it kind? Is it true? Is it necessary?

Just tonight, I expressed a concern I have for a couple of members to another member. I have had the concern for awhile, and I had decided I needed to approach one of these two members (it's a man and a woman -- I want to talk to the woman). The person I spoke with is very close to the man, and I wanted to make sure my thinking was reasonable and that my motives were in the right place. I don't consider that conversation gossip.

Now, if I had just been passing along what I'd observed with no desire to be helpful -- that's gossip, IMO.

Let love -- selfless love -- be the guide.

Peace & Love,
Sugah