so these friendships precede her? no, wait, doesn't matter.....i guess it comes down to two questions:
1) is the friendship worth losing the relationship over?
2) is the relationship worth giving up the friendship for?
i detest jealousy. cuz i've been the jealous person, insecure, demanding, clingy, and friggin codependent as hell!!!! real energy vampire.....sucking life out of everything to feed me poor little ego.......