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Thx 4 sharing your experience Pilgrim.
I've heard that it's a spiritual axiom that if you don't care, I can't care. But if you do care, I have to care.
If someone is lying about their drinking, that's bad. I did that. It really sucked for me and I was unable to go to meetings and act right. I just couldn't say anything. My peers thought I was smoking weed or something. They just couldn't put their finger on what was wrong with me. Then I finally hit a brick wall and it was a big relief.
For someone to lie and be able to act like nothing is wrong is something! Wow.
Oh well. I'm not a sponsor expert but if I ever become one, I hope I can find a way to not take it personal and get so entrenched in their life to not interfere with them hitting their brick wall.
That brick wall for them might wind up being dead, but what can we do? If we know the honest truth in something, I would imagine it's our duty to bring that Truth out. That could save a life. The book even talks about that. If we're going to live long and happy, we have to get honest with someone.
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