just getting back to the boards after returning home from grad school, which is some experience as a grandmother! had trouble logging on as i couldn't find my password for a time---anyway, i was delighted to see the new forum. it is just what i need at this time----i am struggling with letting go of a real betrayal----i do forgive as i would wish to be forgiven, but the pain still returns when i least expect it. thank-you for a wonderful post. mjfaulk