Umm! Sorry, going to be a little strong here but with love.
Who died and put you in charge of your husbands choices?
I know it 100% sucks, but you can not control him. You will drive yourself nuts. Your husband will get sober if/when he is willing on his time and no one elses. That is a sad fact but true.
Have you looked into Alanon? You will find MUCH support there.
And yes I know what you are going thru. My wife is about 48ish days sober.
Originally Posted by
puckettcg 
My AH is on Antabuse, but has been drinking NA Beers and it has absolutely no ill effect on him. NA beer has alcohol in it, and he had four on Saturday - why wouldn't he get sick? I've watched him take the pills and I've checked his mouth to make sure he swallowed. I've even placed the pills in his mouth.
This is actually a really big deal because if Antabuse isn't effecting him when drinks NA, what happens if he decides that they might not work at all? Well, I found that out today. Came home and, on a hunch, had him blow into the breathalyzer and he had not only been drinking - the real stuff not the NA - but he blew a .15!!!
I swear - I have watched him take the antabuse every day since Thursday. I checked the pills to make sure they were in fact Antabuse (the numbers/letters on the pills matched what was on the prescription). Could it be a bum batch or has he figured out some clever new way (that no one else seems to have figured out) to not be impacted by the stuff? WTF!!!