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Hi and welcome to SR
I am attracted to women but relate better with men so i thought... i was determined to get a male sponsor...
a) because i thought i related better to men
b) no sexual attraction
I found it very difficult to get men to sponsor me, when at meetings they would send me off to the females...
In the end i did get a female sponsor and it has worked out alot better than i could have imagined.
I was worried about me ruining things by becoming sexually attracted to them, i did become attracted to them, but not in the way i thought.... i was attracted to their spirit, determination, honesty and passion for helping another person... and their own recovery
We have become good friends now and that relationship has grown over time...
What it comes down to is what the others have said... This woman had something i wanted... i respect her... and i wanted what she had...
So i am going or it....
Try not to look at the outside... if you see someone who has what you want... dont let your own fears of what MIGHT happen hold you back
Welcome again
louis
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