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Are we talking just hooking up for sex or looking at this as a potential long term relationship? if for sex, i guess i was kind of bought up the same way and that's a trip to the massage parlour rather than doing a married woman for me...long term relationship wise - you don't want to be that man now and also you don't want to end up that man that she is married to at the moment mate in 5 yrs time with her talking to another guy online...
But then you could argue that it might have been meant to be and this time it would be different for you and her, and you find out you are soul mates???
One thing is certain, at this stage it would potentially put your sobriety at risk, whichever way it turns out...maybe you could keep chatting to her and say that you are doing some work on yourself and want to get a years worth of change done before you meet, if she is still around after a year and getting divorced then meet up if not you have your answer:-)
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