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DayWalker · 09-30-2009, 11:53 PM

Been posting in the Alcohol forum for the past year but my first post in this forum, want your guys thoughts from the "guys" if that's cool.

Long story short.. I meet this women about a year ago on a forum, a Fishing forum if you can believe that. Been talking to her online and also on the phone for the past 8 months or so. Very cool women, talk on the phone about twice a week, sent pics and all that stuff (very good lookin chick BTW). I'm 37 shes 40 not that it matters. Long story short, the past 2 months shes wanting to get together for a weekend somewhere (we live about 600 miles apart). All cool with me, but, here's the thing. Shes married. She tells me all the time how she's not happy and wants a divorce..blah blah blah.

I wasn't raised that way, I don't want to be "that guy" ya know that breaks up a marriage no matter how bad it is.

So...I've known for the past 5/6 months about her being married, so...what should I do? should I just come right out and tell her I won't do anything as long as she's married, or?

What would you guys do?

She's a really cool women and we have a TON in common, and did I mention she's really HOT lol.

Just tryin to do the right thing but it's been getting harder to do each month though.

Steve

09-30-2009, 11:53 PM	#1 (permalink)
DayWalker Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Michigan Posts: 728 Blog Entries: 1	What would you guys do? Been posting in the Alcohol forum for the past year but my first post in this forum, want your guys thoughts from the "guys" if that's cool. Long story short.. I meet this women about a year ago on a forum, a Fishing forum if you can believe that. Been talking to her online and also on the phone for the past 8 months or so. Very cool women, talk on the phone about twice a week, sent pics and all that stuff (very good lookin chick BTW). I'm 37 shes 40 not that it matters. Long story short, the past 2 months shes wanting to get together for a weekend somewhere (we live about 600 miles apart). All cool with me, but, here's the thing. Shes married. She tells me all the time how she's not happy and wants a divorce..blah blah blah. I wasn't raised that way, I don't want to be "that guy" ya know that breaks up a marriage no matter how bad it is. So...I've known for the past 5/6 months about her being married, so...what should I do? should I just come right out and tell her I won't do anything as long as she's married, or? What would you guys do? She's a really cool women and we have a TON in common, and did I mention she's really HOT lol. Just tryin to do the right thing but it's been getting harder to do each month though. Steve __________________ It aint about how hard you hit, it's about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward, how much you can take, and keep moving forward!