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I think I know what you're feeling - to a lesser extent at least.
It's been a long while for me and a new relationship. My current relationship (with my wife) was new 17 years ago.
But I do recall feelings similar to what you have described. To a degree, I believe it's natural to have those intense infatuation feelings (some call it "puppy love"). I definitely had those.
If I remember correctly (like I said, been a while), I needed to remind myself that my feelings early on were invariably going to change (learned through experience) and work to keep them in check.
I'll say again - I think at least part of what you're feeling is natural. Big question is what you're doing with those feelings - healthy behaviors or unhealthy behaviors.
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