Man, sounds just like my teenager. She loses it and cries when things go wrong. Like for example, she had to be at powder puff practice at 630 tonight, her friend was going to pick her up because she didn't know where the house was. Come 6:30 her friend hadn't come yet. So she starts crying while we're trying to tell her one of us would take her. "But I'm laaaaate!!!" Finally her friend pulls in and kiddo goes out there with tears in her eyes.
Her main thing is. "oh, it's ok, I understand that you hate me and love my sister better" This is after we spent over $300 for school clothes. Teens think they NEED name brand stuff "it's hiiiighschool!!! I gotta look nice" She refuses to wear anything from Target or any of those stores. She has to go to Abercrombie, Hollister, and Aeropostale. She's driving me up the wall. I dread going to look for a dress for homecoming for her. I always gave my Mom the same deal though.
And she just plain out doesn't listen. I was in the bedroom and was reminding her to use good manners over at the house she was going to for powder puff. I hear silence..so I go, Ok? In a really grumpy irritated LOUD voice she yells What?!?!.

This is just a handful.